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Help For Fathers©2009

Make a plan

This is a Sample of what a typical plan of action might look like

A good plan of action will include some brain storming about what needs to change in your life but also will include reference to resources you may have available to use to accomplish your goals. it will include actions you need to take to maintain your physical body, personal relationships and ways you have figured out to make extra income. Also it will include some sort of ideal schedule that you can attempt to apply on a daily basis. The schedule needs to be a little better than you can do normally that way you have something to work on. If you set your goals too low nothing will change. If on the other hand you set the goals too high they tend to taunt you and it is easier to give up. So we are looking for a middle ground here. This one is from the perspective of a person who has decided to go to college in order to get a better job to pay the higher costs he has incurred since getting divorced

Be successful!!!

I only have a few years left that I can do physical work so I better do it while I still can.
God willing if I live long enough there will be always be time to study when I can afford it or  when I
can't do physical labor.

Plan to be successful... 

Plan buy or assume an abandoned house in the south rent it out take the rent money and buy another house.
Create residual income.  From sales and stuff.
Start selling anonymous credit cards and get a residual income started from doing it.
Work, make lots of money, invest in advertizing. 
Start a business get people to work for me.  Make more income than overhead.
Start another business make more income than overhead.  Start another business make more income than overhead.

Get Mom and Dad to help in the paperwork to buy the properties as I get enough excess income to need to invest some.

Don't lose sight of the goals.  Make sure Mom is never grieved again as a result of my behavior.  Get a relationship of some
sort started with my daughters and grand children.  Get my drivers license back.  Start sending gifts to my grand children
on or about their birthdays... They are my Grand children regardless of if their grandmother or mother  likes me or not.  

XMother-in-law will help make this happen if necessary.
Start investment group and use investments to generate income  possibly multi-level.

Setup my  Secure Website to dropship to customers advertise the crap out of it all summer long with any money that I get from working offshore or shutdowns etc...

From this point forward work and start businesses and open several different bank accounts under DBA's and learn about corporate laws. 

Buy a yacht as I can afford it.  Make sure that residuals come up to the monthly due on a weekly basis.  Get as many businesses as I can handle; delegate as much authority as possible while still turning a profit.  Do as much as I can to promote Christian faith as I become prosperous.

Remember a good deed is always repaid eventually.  Even when evil besets you upon first attempt to turn from evil in time even the adversary is at peace with you if you are at peace with God.

Remember groundhog day do stuff that helps other people, make effective use of all of my time.  Fill every second with something exciting and different.  From this day forward live life with passion.  Learn everything that I want to know.  I want to know; I want to know physics and how to program computer graphics.  I want to know how to play guitar solos.

I have several hours a day that are entirely wasted doing entirely useless stuff.  Find something to do in all the slack time.  Work on something new always finding something to live for and be passionate about.  Work at an exciting job.  Meet exciting people.  Make people excited.  I have a bubbly personality from now on time is wasting if I am not actively engaged in some sort of worthwhile endeavor.  There is no room for laxity in my new life.  I am a Christian.  Christians attend church.  I am a student at a University.  Students attend all classes.  I am a productive person.  Productive people work toward making a better tomorrow.  Productive people work.  I am a bubbly person who works and has good personal hygiene and I work out and maintain good physical shape. 

Lets plan a typical schedule

Get up about 5:00 am do the three S's  Shower Shave etc
Make some Tea about 5:30 then about 5:45 run or ride bicycle till about 6:00
Get to the gym work out and take a shower.  Study for class and eat a healthy breakfast.
Go to School and or work till about 1:00 or 2:00 then go to work at second job or whatever for a few hours
Read something interesting or topical for about an hour learn a new French expression and attempt to properly use it.   Attend a mass some time during the day.  Then ride bicycle home.  Take another shower.  Rest for about 8 hours includingSleep for about 6 hours.

I decide to have a full enriching life such that other people are inspired.  Live.  Carpe Diem.  The world will pass me by if I don't grab it by the ears and do something so I might as well be happy.

I need to work somewhere where there is public contact so I get to meet people (potential mate) on a daily basis.  I need a job that allows me time to study.  Possibly 7-11  swing or graveyards  11-7.  Just keep up with the studies each day and it should all come together nicely.  Once I establish proper study habits it should be easy enough to do both.

From this day (include date) forward I will recognize each wife and child of them on their birthdays at least with a Birthday Card and more as I get more wealth.  Starting with (Names of your children here)

 Make a Plan