Help For Fathers©2008

I have studied several successful people and they all seem to agree on a few key points.

Everything happens for a reason and you need to pay attention to that reason.

They all keep todo lists

They have a goals list

They believe that The universe and everything that happens in it is there to benefit them and they learn from it

They try different strategies for success and look to the results or the outcomes and never consider themselves failures

They modify their strategy until it acheives their desired result.
 
You have to desire success and you have to know what you want

Habits equals your income

They have all at one time or another written down everything that they want out of life
and set a time frame to achieve each thing on the list

You can never fail unless you stop trying to succeed as long as you keep trying new strategies you have not failed yet.

It is the journey that is success.  No two people will describe success in exactly the same way. 

But nearly everyone will agree that failure is the inablity to reach your goals. 

The only way you can fail is to give up. 

Sucessful people believe certain things.

I'm going to be rich.  I have the vision and I have the ability. Noone can stop me. I can picture in my mind what I will
feel like when I am successful.  I can see the type of woman I will be with.  I can see the type of house I will live in
I can see the type of car I will drive I can see the type of people I will surround myself with. 

See what your future will be like.  When you get a true vision of what you really want then you will have a much
easier time figuring out how to get it.

Many keep a tape recorder or Note pad by their bed and write down ideas that occur to them just as they are
falling asleep.  A good way to make sure that you actually write it down is to get a metal pie plate or
large speaker cone and some marbles or even some smooth rocks the idea is this three or four times each night
that you decide to do this you put three marbles in a bowl and one in your hand lie back in a recliner or in
bed and let your arm rest so that your hand is above the pan then relax and think about your goals or just let
your mind wander.  While you are doing this hold the rock or marble loosely in your hand so that you are not
concentrating on holding it but just letting your mind wander.  What this does is make sure that you are less
likely to fall asleep while you are brainstorming and letting your creative mind work on a solution for your
problem.  This way if you do happen to fall asleep while you are brainstorming your muscles will relax and the
rock will hit the metal pan and wake you up so that you can record your ideas before you fall asleep.  The
Reason for the four rocks is that you don't want to have to occupy your mind with keeping track of the
mundane task of counting how many times you have done this. 

I heard that this is what Albert Einstein and several other peoply used to do to expand their minds and usually
with similarly amazing results. 

I have read nearly every major book published about how to achieve success.  There are many Books, Authors and Tapes
that have inspired me to keep trying and never give up no matter what the last outcome of my efforts have been. 
I can't say that any one of them has been my sole or major inspiration or that one method is especially superior to
all the rest

Each of these people I have paid to help me be successful be it by buying a book that they wrote or buying a comprehensive tape set or attending a seminar where they were speaking. They have helped to give me the ideas
and strategies that I am passing on to you right now for free. 
Yes I have spent all the money on all these books and tapes over several years and each one I have listed
was worth the money I spent on them.  Some of them are out of print but I have listed them anyway and I will
eventually try to provide links on this site to the ones that aren't out of print.


Books and Tapes that may inspire you to succeed

Larry Thompson The Millionaire Training. This tape is from when he was working as the sales manager for Herbalife
Jose Silva The Silva Method Silva Mind Control This program teaches you how to relax and program your brain
Napoleon Hill Think and Grow Rich This book focuses on keeping your mind on what you want
Ogg Mandino The Greatest Salesman in the World This book teaches you that repetition and good habits are the key to success.
Tony Robbins Personal Power This book gives a detailed step by step way to plan your future and achieve it
Grindler & Bandler  Gestalt therapy  This book teaches how what you say and your actions influence your behavior.
Dale Carnegie How to Win Friends and Influence People. This book shows you how to create a network

These three books were written by millionaires who tell you how they did it.

Joe Karbo The Lazy Man's Way to Riches The first book I bought to try to figure out how to be successful that teaches that what you do is not just how you make a living but what you actually do.  How to live a full rich life no matter what your income is. It is out of print but there is another guy that sells what may or may not be a modified version of it. 


Donald Trump The Art of the Deal
Sam Walton Made in America

I forget who wrote these but I will find out 
Pyramids of Power tape set including the story Acres of Diamonds perhaps the author will email me with his name