Self help
How to create change in your life
a step by step approach
Okay the most important thing I need to do in this
chapter is to help you to figure out what exactly it is that you want out of
this life and then try to give you the tools to achieve it. Now if you are in
arrears in your child support for any reason at all you have likely been
beaten down by the popular catch phrase "dead beat dad" well if this what
you've been called or told now is the time to break away from that
stereotype.
You have decided that you are not that person or you would not be reading
this book. You are not lazy or maybe you were, it doesn't matter what matters
is that you have decided that you want to change your situation and you will
not accept the label "dead beat dad" any more. If you will stick with me I
will show you how to make extra money to pay the child support no matter how
much you owe. If you are drinking quite a bit to help ease the stress we can
work on cutting down to a reasonable level. We are in this together. I am
going to give you step by step ideas and strategies to use to get not only
your support payments current but also the ability to make up the arrears and
if you continue to practice these techniques you can achieve anything that
you really want out of life.
Okay lets let that sink in for a minute. You can achieve anything that you really want out of
life the key words here are "really and want." See if you really want this to happen I can
work with you and help you achieve the things you really want. There are a couple of things
that this doesn't work with and we will look at those things in a little while but for all
practical intents and purposes any material things that you want. Are yours you just have to
decide to get them. Once you decide to get them I can help you figure out how to do it.
(to be continued)